If Only I Knew More About My Family's History…

The speed bumps I crossed are nearly behind me now, and life is taking on a rosier shade. I hope to not get behind in doing the things I love to do… mainly, sharing my thoughts (put to poetry) with you.

Recently, I was thinking of my own family… my mother’s voice rang in loud and clear with one of her wonderful remembrances, and I wished I could phone her (“to get the rest of the story”).

Of course, I was too late to get the information. And I had not asked when I could have talked to her in person. 

If, only.

I look forward to visiting with you again soon. Meanwhile, I hope you enjoy the poem… and, have fun with the interviews.

IF ONLY I KNEW MORE ABOUT MY FAMILY’S HISTORY...

Did you ever wonder what life was like
When your grandparents were girls and boys?
Did they like to play? And if they did, 
What were their favorite toys?

Asking direct questions (like an interview)
Might seem too formal a style.
But there are ways to phrase your questions
And you both end up with smiles.

Ask the right questions, and you’ll be amazed
At the delight they feel in remembering.
You will listen, of course, more than you talk.
It takes a special style of listening.

Ask them to share their earliest memories:
Do not interrupt when they start to share.
Listen intently to all they have say.
This is your family history! Are you aware?

There are many ways to harvest your family’s secrets.
You might ask how they got to school…
And expand with related questions,
Always following the golden rule.

You will know how to proceed in your quest for family knowledge.
And I urge you to pursue this as a special assignment.
But do it now, while they are still in your life.
Do not wait till it’s too late, stay in the proper alignment.